SETTLEMENT VIOLATIONS

100+ Documented Violations | Global Settlement Agreement

Oct 31, 2022 So-Ordered Stipulation (Judge Prus)

Overview

Global Settlement Agreement Violations

So-ordered stipulation (Oct 31, 2022, Judge Prus) governs custody, parenting time, decision-making, and communication. Violations documented 2022-2025.

2,425
FaceTime Entries
67 tagged violations
107
Ignored Communications
74
Medical Events
30 tagged medical
477
Pickup/Dropoff Logs
3
Retaliation Admissions
6
Major Patterns

Source: All counts verified from master_log.jsonl (7,403 total events)

Six Major Violation Patterns

1. Admitted Retaliation

Violation: Art. XI § F (Good Faith Communication)

"I will reciprocate what is given to me while adhering to the stipulation"
— Rima Attar, Nov 25, 2025

Issue: Cooperation is conditional on "reciprocating," not unconditional good faith as required by settlement.

Evidence: 3 explicit admissions (Sept 17, 2024; Nov 24, 2025; Nov 25, 2025)

Impact: Tit-for-tat approach violates settlement's requirement for unconditional good faith cooperation.

2. No Good Faith Communication

Violation: Art. XI § F (Forthwith Inform)

Pattern: Reactive compliance only under pressure, not proactive cooperation

  • Medical information extraction required (8 instances 2024-2025)
  • School updates withheld until Sam asks
  • Settlement requires "forthwith inform" — Rima forces extraction

Evidence: 8 documented instances where Sam had to repeatedly ask for basic information

3. Aggressive/Dismissive Attitude

Violation: Art. XI § F (Good Faith), § G (PC Process)

"I will no longer be engaging in nonsense"
— Rima Attar, Nov 26, 2025 (calls settlement/PC "nonsense")

Evidence: 5 hostile messages dismissing settlement-mandated processes

Impact: Undermines PC effectiveness when settlement process labeled "nonsense"

4. PC Process Demonization

Violation: Art. XI § G (PC for Disputes)

Pattern: Mr. Moukdad punished for using settlement-mandated PC process

  • Sept 17, 2024: Argument over PC usage, Rima states she won't use PC
  • Escalation to court instead of PC (violates settlement)
  • FaceTime denied after PC involvement

Settlement Requirement: Art. XI § G requires PC for disputes. Refusal forces court involvement.

5. Projection Pattern

Violation: False Accusations

Pattern: Accuses Mr. Moukdad of violations she commits

  • Medical Info: Claims Sam doesn't share (he initiates 8.9:1 ratio)
  • FaceTime: Says "I don't get FaceTime when entitled" (2,425 FaceTime entries, 67 violations documented)
  • Cooperation: Accuses Sam of non-cooperation (evidence shows opposite)

Impact: Creates false equivalency ("both parents do this") when evidence shows one-sided violations

6. Settlement Compliance Hypocrisy

Violation: Double Standards Across Multiple Articles

Communication (Art. XI § F)

  • When Sam has Isabella: Persistent inquiries, expects updates
  • When Rima has Isabella: "Stop calling" when Sam asks about sick child
  • Nov 24, 2025 admission: "I give the same courtesy I receive" (retaliatory policy)

Medical Decisions (Art. XI § F)

  • 19+ unilateral visits without notice (2022-2025)
  • Nov 24, 2025 admission: "When she's with me, I can" (ignores joint decision-making)

Pickup Timing (Art. XI § J)

  • Nov 26: Complains about Sam's mother's arrival time
  • Nov 28: Rima 15 minutes late for her own pickup (hypocrisy)
  • Pattern: 26+ delays documented, double standard evident

TOP Weaponization (Sept 2025)

  • Sept 18, 2025: Used temporary order of protection to deny birthday visit
  • Isabella's 9th birthday: Sam allowed supervised visit only (despite TOP allowing contact)
  • Hypocrisy: Rima weaponized TOP while simultaneously violating it (graduation attendance)

FaceTime Violations (Art. XI § T)

Settlement Requirement

Art. XI § T, p.29: "Father shall have FaceTime access to the child on a daily basis at 5:30 PM"

2,425 FaceTime Entries Documented (2021-2025)

67 entries tagged as violations (denials, delays, obstructions, unreasonable restrictions).

Source: master_log.jsonl category="facetime"

Recent Examples:

  • Nov 24-25, 2025: Calls rejected when Isabella sick (settlement allows FaceTime during illness)
  • Nov 25, 2025 hypocrisy: After rejecting calls, Rima says "I don't get FaceTime when entitled"
  • Pattern: 2,425 FaceTime-related entries spanning 4 years

Evidence Documentation

PC Evidence Portal

Password-protected portal for Parent Coordinator with all 6 patterns fully documented with dates, quotes, and evidence.

Password: MOUKDAD

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Master Log (Complete Record)

All 7,403 events in chronological order with timestamps, categories, summaries, and evidence links.

File: data/master_log.jsonl

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Settlement Articles Referenced

  • Art. XI § F (p.17): Communication requirements, good faith, forthwith inform
  • Art. XI § G (p.17): Parent Coordinator process for disputes
  • Art. XI § T (p.29): FaceTime schedule (daily at 5:30 PM)
  • Art. XI § J (p.19): Custody schedule and pickup/dropoff timing

Full Settlement: Global Settlement Agreement (So-Ordered Oct 31, 2022, Judge Prus)